Conversion is simply the ability to lead a relationship towards your desired outcome.
In How To Develop A Successful Dating Life (Part I), I wrote about how establishing an effective means of Reach enables you to have many avenues on hand to meet Women. I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who wrote in and the overwhelming interest for that post, I hope I successfully answered all the questions you guys had!
Now that you have reliable avenues to meet Women, how am I going to go about meeting them? How am I going to go about converting them into friends, lovers or allies? This is where the all-important aspect of LEADERSHIP comes in.
Before I go on, I would like you to understand something very important. The truth is, people don’t know what they want. This means that what people want changes all the time. It’s very easy to persuade people if you knew how to push their buttons. Let’s try this very simple experiment to prove my point:
Imagine right now, I want to give you a million dollars, no questions asked. All you have to do is accept it. Would you like a million dollars?
Yes, of course you would. If you wouldn't, please get in touch with me so that I can relieve you of all your financial "burdens" of dollar bills and coins.
Ah, now I have 10 million dollars. I want to give it to you as well, no questions asked. Same thing, all you have to do is accept. Would you like 10 million dollars?
What we want changes all the time. We are naturally inclined to go with the choice which excites or satisfies us the most. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just human nature. Women are no different. Women don’t know what they want. This is not to say that they are stupid or anything like that. What I mean by that is that What Women want changes from time to time as well, just like everyone else! This is why trying to read all the millions of signals that Women give you, or trying to learn the billions of lines and techniques out there is going to burn you out. But fret not for I have a golden solution to this issue...
Leadership : The Maverick Man Way
Maverick Man Alumni are taught that “You will lead until the day you die.” I find this to be true. Some people will find the task of leading to be a burden. I choose to look at it as a privilege. I believe that there is no one who is more concerned and capable of my own well-being than myself. I like that I am in control of my own life. I like that I am responsible for the success that I will enjoy because no one else will be more generous to myself than… well, myself!
In order to lead effectively, you are going to need TWO things:
1) A Game Plan (I have written a post about how to craft an excellent game plan, read it here, e-mail me for the password)
2) Quality Leadership Ability
Yes, it’s not about giving a Woman what she wants... this is because what Women want changes all the time! At Maverick Man, it’s about understanding who your identity and being confident that it is something that a Woman would appreciate.
Adding some Maverick Man magic into your Identity is all about developing your Identity to be in line with The 5 Attributes, which will result in you becoming irresistible to Women!
Fact : So long as a Woman likes the way you look and the vibe you give off, she is not going to brush you off.
The thing that you have to focus on is how you are going to lead the interaction once she is receptive to you.
(My apologies for the flurry of colors but I need you readers to understand all the points which I colored, they are very key fundamentals!)
Being able to CONVERT a Woman into a friend/lover/ally is all about knowing YOUR Game Plan for doing so and using your Leadership ability to make that happen. The manner in which you lead has to be UNSHAKABLE, which means that the belief that you have within yourself has to be unwavering and you have to believe that whatever you have in mind for your Woman and you, both of you are going to appreciate it.
I am going to share and breakdown one of the latest client success stories from The Singapore Crew :
“Hey guys, it’s Eddy here.
So it was another one of those EPIC nights out with the crew. We were at the club doing our thing once again, catching up over a few drinks and basically having a ball of the time as we talked about the adventures we all enjoyed during the week.
The thing about the Singapore Crew is that we just radiate this amazing vibe when we are out. It’s the vibe of a bunch of cool guys who are out to have the best night ever. As the Crew Commander Xavier always says, “You guys are the coolest guys in this club. If the Women don’t want you, WHO ELSE could they want?!” We can always count on Xav to be there to put things in perspective haha...
A group of 4 girls were standing in front of our spot. I deployed some basic Line-Of-Sight Tactics and noticed that every time I made an overt glance in their direction, one of the girls in blue would always smile/flip her hair. This was a clear sign that she would welcome my presence, so I naturally made my way over and started a conversation with one of Xav’s trademark openers.
“Hey!” I said, with a beaming smile on my face (Xav: that really is all there is to it… you don’t need to be FANTASTIC when you have a game plan, you just need to do JUST ENOUGH)
The girls all turned to look at me and greet me. I noticed the girl in blue who I set my sights on flipped her hair as she greeted me. Game on, I thought to myself.
"Are you girls okay with compliments?" I asked.
All of them smiled and said Yes.
"Great, so give me one already!" I shouted with an exaggerated look of frustration and amusement on my face.
The girls immediately burst out laughing, and the girl in blue said, "Okay, you are very humble, Mister." (Game on or what? Hahaha…)
"I'm glad you noticed, my dear..." I said in an overly-cool manner. We all burst out laughing after that.
I then introduced myself to the rest of the group and found out that the girl in blue was called Laura. I invited them to my table where my wingmen were stationed as they dispersed the group and keep them entertained while I talked to Laura. I did a Proximity Lead (Xav: moving a girl from one position to another physically) and found myself in isolation with Laura. I took advantage of the loud music to move closer to her, keeping my movement to a minimum and my conversation light and fun, while my eye-contact and non-verbals communicated intimacy. (Xav: Known as the Yin-Yang Effect)
After speaking for 10 minutes, I took her back to the table where we shared another drink. "Let’s grab a warm-up drink before hitting the dancefloor." I foreshadowed. I took her by the hand and lead her in that manner from there all the way to the dancefloor. I noticed her friends within the area so I took her back to them as my wingmen and Laura’s friends started dancing together. We had Alumni Jack shuffling like he was on a music video which really hyped up the crowd. After having a good time with the crew and Laura’s friends, I knew I had already won over Laura’s friends. I then proceeded to take Laura by the hand and into another spot where it was just the both of us. I proceeded to do some basic Dancegame which Crew Sergeant Jordon taught me and Laura was really loving it. During this period of isolation, I escalated in a seductive manner, adjusting my Dancegame according to my Game Plan, playing a natural, physical push-pull. Within 3 minutes, we were making-out on the dance floor. After about 3 songs, we headed back to the table and started chatting again, rotating between holding hands, drinking and exchanging kisses. The night was going smoothly. I excused myself and went to the toilet and motioned for Captain Laveen to come with me as we explored my options for that night.
As far as I knew from Laveen, my girl was responsible for sending all of them home. I had the option of hitching a ride with her… or I could fight another day. From my experience, if I followed up closely within the next 3 days, this would be a done deal. I decided to do a solid follow-up so when I came back, I continued dancing with her and sharing a few drinks with her until it was time for me to leave with the crew. I thanked her for being the best company I could ask for all night and told her I’d love to see her on Tuesday for coffee. She agreed and I took her number.
Sure enough, when we met last Tuesday evening… let’s just say coffee wasn’t the only thing we shared
As you can tell, Eddy seemed to know exactly what to do at every point of time. Eddy is a graduate of the Private Instruction program only about a month ago and his skills have already risen to a remarkable level. Effective Game-Planning is the key to knowing what to do at every point of time. When you are backed by a Game Plan that, through experience, proves to be consistently successful, your Unshakable Leadership abilities are going to increase you will be able to achieve success easily.
In order to achieve consistent success in Conversion the Women you meet into potential lovers, you will need an effective Game Plan and Good Leadership Ability to be able to make that happen consistently. These are concepts which we cover in full-detail in our Private Instruction programs.
AND EXCLUSIVELY FOR SINGAPORE PRIVATE INSTRUCTION CLIENTS…
Maverick Man Singapore Crew
After 3 full days of intensive training, you will be inducted into the very active Maverick Man Alumni Community, where your mentorship and support group will be there with you for AS LONG AS YOU WANT. That is a lifetime of mentorship, which pretty much GUARANTEES your success with Women.
Imagine, the support of REAL, EXPERIENCED mentors on hand to provide you with the mentorship and training you need to realize that dream dating life which you have always wanted. The choice for a better life is entirely yours. Talk to me today about Private Instruction if you want that life for yourself.
Alright folks, Part III of this article will be coming up some time next week. I will be talking about the final component towards building a successful dating life so be sure to tune in again next week for my next entry! Until then, have a powerful, powerful week ahead!
Live and Love,
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