Xavier’s TV Appearance, Maverick Fitness: PLAYGROUND is a post from: Maverick Movement

If any of the above describes you....

Yup, you're fat.

Good thing is you've decided to change it.

You’ve taken your first step towards a better, healthier life…. plus looking good naked wouldn’t hurt too . If not you wouldn’t be here reading this anyway, right?

First off, I’d like you to ask yourself a few questions.

“How old are you?” and “How long has it been since you’ve exercised?”

If both of the numbers are double digits, you should really drive your head down with 100% force on the table right now!

But it's okay, everyone has to start somewhere.

Like myself, I started when I was at my lowest, and true enough, the only way I could go was up.

Okay never mind about banging your head, let’s get down to business!

Your first step.

Setting goals

I’m sure that when you were young, you’d have dreams. My dream was to become ultraman, but well….. I’ll leave that for next time.

Back on track.

Yes, I’m sure we'd all have dreams, and somewhere along the way we either forget them, or do our best to achieve them.

What we’re gunning for here, is the latter.

Right now, I want you to have your dream body in mind.

In fact, just Google for the picture.

Yes, right now!

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Okay, me first. Here's mine.

Now, create a folder on your desktop and name it fitness (or something along those lines), store the picture inside and open it every time you feel lazy, or need a reminder of your goal.

To succeed you'll need to commit time and effort, and giving up will always be the easier option. Never lose sight of your goals!

Now in that folder, I want you to open your notepad and start writing; firstly about how committed you think you are towards achieving your goal (from 1 - 10), and how much time you are able to put in per week for workouts.

Do your very best to meet the amount of hours you put in.

*Note that these can be changed throughout your journey.

Then I want you to write how long you expect yourself to take to get that body (but be realistic of course.. You don't grow fat overnight, so don't expect your abs to come out overnight either!).

Next, in a new notepad, I want you to write down in detail, how you are going to achieve this. Write down what you have that you can work with right now… Meaning if you’re a totally new to this, you only have your persistence and determination. If you're already a veteran in lifting, then you're strong, if you're already having a good diet, then you have discipline etc...

“Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence, Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent, Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb, Education will not; the world is filled with educated people. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent”. – Calvin Coolidge

Always remember to have this desire and your dream body in mind, because  the only thing that’s keeping you from it is yourself and your mind.

Alright…. Done?

If you’re not, DO NOT read on. I repeat, DO IT BEFORE YOU CARRY ON READING!

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Okay great! Now that your goals are set, I want you to create for yourself 2 excel spreadsheets, namely “Diet Log”, and “Training Log”.

Yes, you are going to start keeping "dairies" like kids again! Because after reading about people who have led excellent lives, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves... self-discipline with all of them came first.

The logging will also help you keep track of what you’re going to do for the next….. well, lifetime.

Now that we’re done with this, here’s the next step.

Being realistic

Firstly, and most importantly, you need to understand that this "method" of losing fat isn’t a magic pill that can give you abs or arms that you desire overnight.

Also, don’t try to take the easy way out like using shake weights or diet pills because they don’t work. This is a lifestyle change, and not a one time thing. But have no fear! As much as I said it would be tough, it would definitely be enjoyable, especially if you have a friend going through this with you.

It’s about changing the bad habits you've accumulated through the years into good ones, and maintaining them so that you will run around playing catch with your grandkids, or even great-grandkids.

Nothing in the world that’s worth having comes easy. So live the life you love, and love the life you live.

Now, here’s your next step.

Seek knowledge

Not because I asked you to, but because you want to.

Remember that time when you felt sick and had no idea what kind of symptoms you’re having?

What did you do?!

I’m guessing that you went up to the internet and checked it out, right?

The reason for that action was simple, you had a problem, you wanted to solve it, hence you went to did a check online!

The case is the same here.

You don’t have to become a professor, but having some basic knowledge in training and nutrition will definitely aid you in making the right choices.

It will also definitely help you in choosing the right people to help you.

You will not be alone in your conquest towards your dream body, many others in the world have done it, so can you.

Or alternatively, you can hire a trainer to train you. But at the end of the day, if you have no idea what he’s doing to you, you won’t even know if you’re getting your pockets sucked dry.

The last thing anybody wants is to spend money and not get what they want, this I'm pretty sure about.

And finally...

The last step

Here’s 1 exercise recommendation for you.

The Table Pushaway

Meaning, stop sitting on your butt and push yourself away from the table! Go for a walk, stretch, or just stand up.

Do something. Get started today and stop procrastinating.

If you’ve done the steps I’ve mentioned, you've already have half the battle in your hands.In the next post, I'll be sharing some basic diet tips I personally use that have helped accelerate my fat loss!

Until then!

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The story always begins the same way :

"... So I confessed my feelings for her... and she told me :

1) you're a nice guy and I really like you... but as a friend...

2) I am not ready for a relationship... (she forgot to add a "with you" cos she would be with THAT other guy)

3) she told me she is not ready yet and told me to wait... so I'm still waiting... she will be ready soon... (sorry bro, she will never be as long as there are REAL MEN around)

All this actually means is that you just got :

Look, at the end of the day, the obvious lesson is this : "Confessions of Love" are really not a good idea... if you don't have your MACRO PERSPECTIVE in place.

As a young, born-and-bred Singaporean man, I would safely say that it is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to not experience this problem. If you are facing this problem right now, or have faced it before and want to be rid of it forever, this article is for you.

What on earth is Macro Perspective?

Macro perspective refers to your understanding, awareness of a situation and your chosen perspective on the matter.

I want you readers to always remember this Maverick Man : GOLD CLASS lesson that I always emphasize :

"Seduction thrives on a little bit of uncertainty. A Woman doesn't have to know exactly what your plan is, she just needs to FEEL that you know what you are doing so she can trust you to lead her."

I am going to prove this theory to you right now.

So you've read about the common consequences of confessing your love. Now I want to welcome you to the other side that the Maverick Man is accustomed to.

I remember my good friend and Alumni TheMessenger who was talking to a girl he met in the day time. They had an awesome interaction which lead to many discussions about their next meeting. One part of the conversation went like this :

Girl : "Haha this sounds like a date!"

XB : "It's you and me goin' out and having the best time we can have."

Girl : "So... it's a date?"

XB : "Nope, you and me, best times."

Girl : "So is it a date?!"

XB : -shrugs- + -smirks-

After they slept together on the first night out, she confessed to him that she was going gaga over what was going to happen. She was discussing with her friends about every ambiguous thing he said. They even tried to analyze how interested in her he was. There was so much to discuss because he simply never verbally made certain about anything. He would say one thing like :

XB : "Yea... just coffee will do... I'm sure." -smirks-

And the girls will go Gaga over the discussion, spending hours trying to figure him out!

The Reason For This?

The reason this happens is because, like I mentioned earlier :

"Seduction thrives on a little bit of uncertainty. A Woman doesn't have to know exactly what your plan is, she just needs to FEEL that you know what you are doing so she can trust you to lead her."

Confessing your Love for a Woman prematurely will result in heartache FOR SURE. Think about it for a second : If you were a Woman, how would you want to be seduced? Would you like a man who goes :

"Hey, can I be your friend?"

"Hi, can I be your boyfriend?"

"Hi, can I hold your hand?"

"Hi, can I kiss you?"

Waiting for a girl to give you PERMISSION is weak! TAKE CHARGE!

Obviously not, right? Asking for permission to escalate is weak. Though you may not feel it, this weakness tells a Woman that:

1) You don't have balls.

2) She isn't seductive enough for you to lose your restraint for.

Damn it, I was guilty of that shit for a good 20 years haha. I was a cool cat, funny and charismatic but I was terrible with Women simply because I was such a weakling with them. I was always careful and asking all these stupid questions. Naturally, this stupidity lead me to plan grand confessions of love that ended up in me falling flat on my face.

Understand that a Woman wants 3 things from a Man :

1) Trust - she must be able to trust him

2) Fun - she must enjoy his company

3) Intimacy - she must feel seduced AND seductive around him

So begs the question : How can I move along and escalate without making it entirely certain?

Answers coming up in Part II

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

http://alife2love.com/

Skype : xavierrrr

DO NOT Confess Your Love To A Woman! Unless… (Part I) is a post from: Maverick Movement

When we take efforts to:

- Take care of our Presentation (Grooming, Fashion, Physique) - Add depth to our personalities (Gain life experiences, values and beliefs) - Iron out logistics (Getting on track with regards to our financial and relationship success) - Develop an awesome lifestyle (having the right friends and activities to lead a fulfilling life)

All these things contribute towards us making it EASY for Women to be attracted to us.

How so?

First and foremost, having worked out all these things makes you look and feel like a WINNER. This is what gives you the confidence to get the girl. You can also look at it this way : If you met a girl, who drove a nice car, has her own place, looks like a diva and has the personality of an angel... AND SHE LIKES YOU... do you think you WOULDN'T like her?

It's hard not to like a girl like that right? So same thing here. We as attractive men, we are NOT average men. We work hard towards becoming AWESOME people that Women just want to have in their lives.

Like it or not, it is a fact that we tend to complicate our lives when things are a simple matter of "Yes" or "No". Somehow, the decision about whether you like someone or not seems to be such a tough one to call. Therefore, making it easier for a Woman to decide that you are a "Yes" on the dating scale will go a long way towards helping you become more successful with the ladies!

#2 She likes you already

My second golden tip for Asian and Singaporean Men to become more successful with Women is to adopt the mindset of "Keeping things Simple". this is really a very important point that you must get through into your head.

How Simple Do I Keep It?

So long as a girl does not IGNORE me, I deem her as attracted to me. Positive and Negative attraction is still attraction and that is really all I need to play the Game. I will post more about this in an upcoming post that you really should read if you've ever wondered how EASY it is for a "bad boy" to get a girl.

This might sound obnoxious to you but let me set things straight: the FIRST step to success with anything is BELIEVING it is possible. I make it SIMPLE for me to believe that a Woman likes me. Therefore it always seems easy for me. I believe that I speak for many successful Ladies' Men out there as well. For us, it's not so much a matter of whether a girl likes us or not. It's a matter of HOW MUCH and WHAT I WANT TO DO about it.

So as far as I'm concerned, as long as a girl likes me, it's GAME ON.

I'll tell you why:

BIOLOGY

YEARS before the discovery of "Game", Men and Women were already attracting each other, finding love and mating in the process. This was even way before LANGUAGES were invented. This is due to science. We as humans are attracted to :

- LOOKS (the way she looks, humans are visual creatures and if you look good, a Woman will be attracted to what she sees and vice versa)

- VIBE (charisma, dominance and all the vibes allow her to feel trust, fun, intimacy)

of the opposite sex. As soon as these 2 things click, it's GAME ON from there. All you have to do have GAME, which I define as "NOT SCREWING UP THE ACT OF BEING YOURSELF."

Really guys, adopt this #2 mindset and try it out. ASSUME girls already like you. If you've seen how arrogant, cocky guys get chicks, it's always because they adopted this "everyone loves me" frame. As such, they behave and speak that way. Try it out. Make statements about her trying to seduce you, how you should be careful of her etc. You've seen me drop the "I'm a virgin", "I haven't lost my first kiss." line tons of times and it ALWAYS FUCKING WORKS. If the WORDS are already so effective, wait till you fully incorporate the vibe into your personality.

Now, take these lessons and conquer the World!

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Alright folks, I am off to Siam Reap for some tourism. I'll be sure to post some pictures and stories when I am back. Take care and have a powerful week ahead! It's F1 week here in Singapore with a weekend filled with some of the biggest parties of the year. Cheers in advance to a LEGENDARY week!

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

http://alife2love.com

Skype : xavierrrr

2 Golden Tips For Being Better With Women is a post from: Maverick Movement

Maverick Man at our good friend Peggy Heng's
Stuff Magazine party. Congrats on being #1 Ambassador!

There are many ways in which you may have stumbled upon this site. To me, that is unimportant. What is important to me is that I have you continued attention for you are about to embark on an unforgettable journey with me. Together with my Maverick Movement Team, I want to bring to you a brand of date-coaching that will take the world by storm. I want to be able to fulfill my purpose of living a life of inspiration. In order for me to do that, it is my personal mission to be able to provide you with high quality dating advice that is both effective and efficient.

Being one of the biggest names in Asia in the date coaching community for the past 3 years despite being the youngest coach on the international scene, I feel that I have come a long way. Having worked and rubbed shoulders with some of the greats in my industry, it is with excitement and enthusiasm that I take all those invaluable experiences I have gathered and use them to deliver some remarkable content that will help you lead a more highly successful dating life.

Are you interested in leading a healthier social and dating life?

Would you like to have more options when it comes to the opposite sex?

Are you serious about making continuous improvement in your dating life?

Are you keen to learn more about the way Men and Women react to each other?

Are you serious about learning to become better with Women?

Do you want to not just read about, but find the right help and resources to really enjoy and experience for yourself what leading a successful dating life is about?

Do you want to get effective and efficient advice that is easy to learn and apply?

If you answered "Yes" to any of the questions stated above, I would like to urge you to stay tuned to this site regularly. I am in the process of organizing things and preparing quality content for everyone out there. Be sure to be back here again on 1st October 2011 to get a taste of the great things that are in store for all readers and supporters of Maverick Man.

In the meantime, I have written and prepared a free mini e-book entitled : The Fatal 3. In the e-book, you will learn :

To get your hands on this free e-book, simply key in your details in the contact form on the right side of the page. You will receive the e-book for free within 24 hours. This is me saying thank you for your decision to see what I have to offer to you and looking forward to speaking with you again on 1st October 2011.

Alright folks, thank you for visiting the site. Until then, HUSTLE ON!

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

www.maverick-movement.com/

Skype : xavierrrr

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Without further ado, here is the final installment of our 3 part series on How To Develop A Successful Dating Life.

How To Develop A Successful Dating Life (Part III)

After tapping on your reach and converting the Women that you meet into dates, you want to be able to sustain a healthy relationship where both of you are passionate and involved in wanting to give each other an awesome experience each time. This final piece of the puzzle is an often overlooked one. I say this not just from my 3 years of coaching experience but also because I was lead into believing that being able to approach or meet Women is really the coolest thing about The Game. Obviously, I was very wrong because...

There is no point in having 1000 phone numbers when NONE of the girls even want to see you again!

Alright, So How Do I Make Sure Women Want To See Me Again?

They key to making Women want to see you again is to give them a reason to want to see you again. In order for you to do that, you must have a LIFESTYLE that a Woman can fit into comfortably and would enjoy. Only then will you achieve Retention.

Retention

Retention refers to your ability to keep a Woman’s attention focused on you for an extended period of time.

Where this is where most systems fail, this is truly where Maverick Man shines.

At Maverick Man Private Instruction programs, we start things off with a comprehensive Pre-Program Package to help us get to you know better. A fundamental phase of this process is us getting to understand your lifestyle. Fact : Having an awesome lifestyle automatically makes you an awesome person to be around. A person with an awesome lifestyle is naturally in a good position to add more depth to his personality through earning more life experience in professional and social situations.

Before I took a program with my mentor, I lead a pretty mundane life. I loved staying at home and sleeping, occasionally waking up just to watch programs on the computer and just eating whatever food there was in the house. After my class with my mentor, I became more aware of how life is actually pretty damn short. I wasn’t going to get any younger and there was much of the world that I wanted to see. That set me off on an amazing journey where I traveled around the world extensively. In the space of 2 years, I visited Russia, Spain, Italy, France, Portugal, Hawaii and almost all of Asia. These experiences allowed me to gain a strong appreciation for foreign cultures and develop unique personal tastes, which added depth to my personality. This helped me develop dimensions to my personality that intrigued and interested Women, allowing me to charm them just by telling them about myself.

Maverick Man Glen: The Prince of the Clubs

The Maverick Man is powered by an attractive lifestyle. You can fake a lot of things, from confident body language to the stories you tell, but there is no way you can fake an entire lifestyle. I’ll give you readers a RARE glimpse of the kind of events that we have at least once a month for our Alumni. This was us organizing a celebrity-themed party for that night for the entire public to see this coming Friday. It was termed as "The Operation".

Building a universally Attractive Lifestyle for yourself is not difficult but it requires effort on your part. How hungry are you for your chance to live your dream life? Most people fall into the general category where 98% of people in the world fall into. They just keep their eyes peeled for opportunities to come along. They leave their lifestyle choices to chance. I actually knew of this guy who wanted to invite me to a “VIP” party. I appreciate the thought but seriously, a “VIP” party on Facebook, with a guestlist of 9000+ people?! Very important indeed haha... The sad thing is, that was really one of the biggest highlights of his year.

The fact is that you must be willing to work hard towards creating that awesome lifestyle for yourself. If you are serious about doing so, then the first step is really to define what an attractive lifestyle is to you.

Defining An Attractive Lifestyle

When I started crafting my dream lifestyle, I chose to focus on 3 lifestyle dimensions which would allow me to live that dream lifestyle.

1) I wanted to be engaging in activities which I found cool and enjoyable.

One example that illustrates my point would be my early days of clubbing. I made it a point to stay in touch with the cool people who I met in the clubs. I talked about how we should party up again together and after that it was all just a matter of logistics. The people who I choose to party withwere people who enabled me to enjoy myself to the fullest. This meant only fun people OR people who were well-connected or possessed both qualities. You might think that such people are hard to come by but believe me, it’s a lot easier to know such people than you think it is. Slowly, these people progressed on to becoming post-clubbing breakfast club buddies, online music-sharing buddies and even occasional coffee/golf buddies.

2) I wanted to have the right Entourage of friends to party and enjoy life with.

I wanted to find Men and Women who liked the things that I liked. The best way for me to do that was to hang out in spots which I personally would frequent. Sure enough, even up till today, some of my best friends are people who I’ve met in clubs or while playing soccer (my favorite past-time). When people are enjoying each others’ company, they are bound to talk about future plans together (foreshadowing). All it takes is a little bit more effort on your part to follow up with plans you guys make and after 2-3 solid outings together, you would start to develop a good bond. I would begin organizing supper sessions at my personal favorite spots and invite them there and the next time we hung out, my new friends would take the lead. Every time I bring a date out on one of the Entourage’s outing sessions, it’s pretty much Game Set because she sees how I am surrounded by awesome people like myself, people who she would also like to be around.

3) I wanted solid date ideas for the Women I took out on dates.

I am the kind of guy who appreciates sweeping settings. My dates mostly take place along a river, by the beach or a rooftop bar/lounge. I identified my favorite spots and went to those places on off-days. This allowed for more attention to be focused on me and before I knew it, I became well-established in all my favorite spots from clubs all the way to cafes. This allowed me to gain extra privileges, like free entry, VIP treatment, discounts and the works. Organizing an amazing date was only a phone call away and this made dating a highly pleasurable affair with very minimal effort. One example would be me dining at my favorite Thai restaurant in Dhoby Ghaut. Every time I bring my dates there for AWESOME Thai food, we would be treated royally by the staff and the boss, who takes her time to personally prepare my dishes for me. This really brings about a great vibe to the date, which makes success somewhat of an after-thought.

Why Go Through All The Trouble?

I always believe that it is work if you don’t enjoy it. By developing the lifestyle that I TRULY wanted, I was going out to places I love, hanging out with people I enjoy hanging out with and doing awesome things which I enjoy. Today, I am constantly in the process of improving and maintaining my lifestyle, looking for new, exciting things to try out. It truly doesn’t feel like work at all... in fact I cannot wait for the activities that we have planned for the week!

All this effort you put in yourself is going to empower you with the ULTIMATE feeling : Genuine, unshakable belief that you have a life you are proud of and a life she will love. If there was really one thing that will SKYROCKET your dating life, it is being empowered with this feeling. You will see your confidence soar to unbelievable levels and you will be able to not just retain, but CAPTIVATE any Woman who comes into yourself because she will want to know so much more about you.

The Maverick Man Alumni Crew in Singapore lives and breathes an attractive lifestyle. If you haven’t already checked out the privileges of being an esteemed member of the Alumni Crew is like, just scroll of the bottom of this page. After graduation from a live program, our Alumni Establishment is there at your disposal and virtually guarantees a fun and exciting life for you.

Alright folks, I hope you enjoyed Part III of the How To Develop A Successful Dating Life series. Stay tuned to this site for a video blog update coming up this week, where I will tell you about our upcoming 8-episode video series that is unlike anything any date coaching company has ever seen in Asia. You heard it here first! Until then, have a rockin' week ahead!

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

http://alife2love.com

Skype : xavierrrr

How To Develop A Successful Dating Life (Part III) is a post from: Maverick Movement

Conversion is simply the ability to lead a relationship towards your desired outcome.

In How To Develop A Successful Dating Life (Part I), I wrote about how establishing an effective means of Reach enables you to have many avenues on hand to meet Women. I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who wrote in and the overwhelming interest for that post, I hope I successfully answered all the questions you guys had!

Now that you have reliable avenues to meet Women, how am I going to go about meeting them? How am I going to go about converting them into friends, lovers or allies? This is where the all-important aspect of LEADERSHIP comes in.

Before I go on, I would like you to understand something very important. The truth is, people don’t know what they want. This means that what people want changes all the time. It’s very easy to persuade people if you knew how to push their buttons. Let’s try this very simple experiment to prove my point:

Imagine right now, I want to give you a million dollars, no questions asked. All you have to do is accept it. Would you like a million dollars?

Yes, of course you would. If you wouldn't, please get in touch with me so that I can relieve you of all your financial "burdens" of dollar bills and coins.

Ah, now I have 10 million dollars. I want to give it to you as well, no questions asked. Same thing, all you have to do is accept. Would you like 10 million dollars?

What we want changes all the time. We are naturally inclined to go with the choice which excites or satisfies us the most. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just human nature. Women are no different. Women don’t know what they want. This is not to say that they are stupid or anything like that. What I mean by that is that What Women want changes from time to time as well, just like everyone else! This is why trying to read all the millions of signals that Women give you, or trying to learn the billions of lines and techniques out there is going to burn you out. But fret not for I have a golden solution to this issue...

Leadership : The Maverick Man Way

Maverick Man Alumni are taught that “You will lead until the day you die.” I find this to be true. Some people will find the task of leading to be a burden. I choose to look at it as a privilege. I believe that there is no one who is more concerned and capable of my own well-being than myself. I like that I am in control of my own life. I like that I am responsible for the success that I will enjoy because no one else will be more generous to myself than… well, myself!

In order to lead effectively, you are going to need TWO things:

1) A Game Plan (I have written a post about how to craft an excellent game plan, read it here, e-mail me for the password)

2) Quality Leadership Ability

Yes, it’s not about giving a Woman what she wants... this is because what Women want changes all the time! At Maverick Man, it’s about understanding who your identity and being confident that it is something that a Woman would appreciate.

Adding some Maverick Man magic into your Identity is all about developing your Identity to be in line with The 5 Attributes, which will result in you becoming irresistible to Women!

Fact : So long as a Woman likes the way you look and the vibe you give off, she is not going to brush you off.

The thing that you have to focus on is how you are going to lead the interaction once she is receptive to you.

(My apologies for the flurry of colors but I need you readers to understand all the points which I colored, they are very key fundamentals!)

Being able to CONVERT a Woman into a friend/lover/ally is all about knowing YOUR Game Plan for doing so and using your Leadership ability to make that happen. The manner in which you lead has to be UNSHAKABLE, which means that the belief that you have within yourself has to be unwavering and you have to believe that whatever you have in mind for your Woman and you, both of you are going to appreciate it.

I am going to share and breakdown one of the latest client success stories from The Singapore Crew :

“Hey guys, it’s Eddy here.

So it was another one of those EPIC nights out with the crew. We were at the club doing our thing once again, catching up over a few drinks and basically having a ball of the time as we talked about the adventures we all enjoyed during the week.

The thing about the Singapore Crew is that we just radiate this amazing vibe when we are out. It’s the vibe of a bunch of cool guys who are out to have the best night ever. As the Crew Commander Xavier always says, “You guys are the coolest guys in this club. If the Women don’t want you, WHO ELSE could they want?!” We can always count on Xav to be there to put things in perspective haha...

A group of 4 girls were standing in front of our spot. I deployed some basic Line-Of-Sight Tactics and noticed that every time I made an overt glance in their direction, one of the girls in blue would always smile/flip her hair. This was a clear sign that she would welcome my presence, so I naturally made my way over and started a conversation with one of Xav’s trademark openers.

“Hey!” I said, with a beaming smile on my face (Xav: that really is all there is to it… you don’t need to be FANTASTIC when you have a game plan, you just need to do JUST ENOUGH)

The girls all turned to look at me and greet me. I noticed the girl in blue who I set my sights on flipped her hair as she greeted me. Game on, I thought to myself.

"Are you girls okay with compliments?" I asked.

All of them smiled and said Yes.

"Great, so give me one already!" I shouted with an exaggerated look of frustration and amusement on my face.

The girls immediately burst out laughing, and the girl in blue said, "Okay, you are very humble, Mister." (Game on or what? Hahaha…)

"I'm glad you noticed, my dear..." I said in an overly-cool manner. We all burst out laughing after that.

I then introduced myself to the rest of the group and found out that the girl in blue was called Laura. I invited them to my table where my wingmen were stationed as they dispersed the group and keep them entertained while I talked to Laura. I did a Proximity Lead (Xav: moving a girl from one position to another physically) and found myself in isolation with Laura. I took advantage of the loud music to move closer to her, keeping my movement to a minimum and my conversation light and fun, while my eye-contact and non-verbals communicated intimacy. (Xav: Known as the Yin-Yang Effect)

After speaking for 10 minutes, I took her back to the table where we shared another drink. "Let’s grab a warm-up drink before hitting the dancefloor." I foreshadowed. I took her by the hand and lead her in that manner from there all the way to the dancefloor. I noticed her friends within the area so I took her back to them as my wingmen and Laura’s friends started dancing together. We had Alumni Jack shuffling like he was on a music video which really hyped up the crowd. After having a good time with the crew and Laura’s friends, I knew I had already won over Laura’s friends. I then proceeded to take Laura by the hand and into another spot where it was just the both of us. I proceeded to do some basic Dancegame which Crew Sergeant Jordon taught me and Laura was really loving it. During this period of isolation, I escalated in a seductive manner, adjusting my Dancegame according to my Game Plan, playing a natural, physical push-pull. Within 3 minutes, we were making-out on the dance floor. After about 3 songs, we headed back to the table and started chatting again, rotating between holding hands, drinking and exchanging kisses. The night was going smoothly. I excused myself and went to the toilet and motioned for Captain Laveen to come with me as we explored my options for that night.

As far as I knew from Laveen, my girl was responsible for sending all of them home. I had the option of hitching a ride with her… or I could fight another day. From my experience, if I followed up closely within the next 3 days, this would be a done deal. I decided to do a solid follow-up so when I came back, I continued dancing with her and sharing a few drinks with her until it was time for me to leave with the crew. I thanked her for being the best company I could ask for all night and told her I’d love to see her on Tuesday for coffee. She agreed and I took her number.

Sure enough, when we met last Tuesday evening… let’s just say coffee wasn’t the only thing we shared

- Eddy

As you can tell, Eddy seemed to know exactly what to do at every point of time. Eddy is a graduate of the Private Instruction program only about a month ago and his skills have already risen to a remarkable level. Effective Game-Planning is the key to knowing what to do at every point of time. When you are backed by a Game Plan that, through experience, proves to be consistently successful, your Unshakable Leadership abilities are going to increase you will be able to achieve success easily.

In order to achieve consistent success in Conversion the Women you meet into potential lovers, you will need an effective Game Plan and Good Leadership Ability to be able to make that happen consistently. These are concepts which we cover in full-detail in our Private Instruction programs.

AND EXCLUSIVELY FOR SINGAPORE PRIVATE INSTRUCTION CLIENTS…

Maverick Man Singapore Crew

After 3 full days of intensive training, you will be inducted into the very active Maverick Man Alumni Community, where your mentorship and support group will be there with you for AS LONG AS YOU WANT. That is a lifetime of mentorship, which pretty much GUARANTEES your success with Women.

Imagine, the support of REAL, EXPERIENCED mentors on hand to provide you with the mentorship and training you need to realize that dream dating life which you have always wanted. The choice for a better life is entirely yours. Talk to me today about Private Instruction if you want that life for yourself.

Alright folks, Part III of this article will be coming up some time next week. I will be talking about the final component towards building a successful dating life so be sure to tune in again next week for my next entry! Until then, have a powerful, powerful week ahead!

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

http://alife2love.com/

Skype : xavierrrr

How To Develop A Successful Dating Life (Part II) is a post from: Maverick Movement

From December 2010, I have been developing and refining a new concept which I came up with when it came to Identity Development. Think about it. It really isn’t what you do or say, neither is it your game or your funky techniques that will get you the girl. A Woman likes you not for what you do, but for WHO YOU ARE.

The focus for the next 4 months with the Maverick Man will be on on Identity Development. With that in mind, I came up with a 3-part concept on How to Develop a Successful Dating Life. This is going to be a 3-part series so without further ado, here is Part I of my article!

How to Develop a Successful Dating Life (Part I)

When I first started learning how to become better with Women, I was obsessed about methods. I was always crazy about learning the best techniques and tricks that could help me make it easier to meet Women. One of the areas which I focused a lot of time and energy on (unfortunately) was Approaching Women. Thanks to the Maverick Man system, I was able to realize how to effectively solve this problem in the space of a few minutes. In fact, by applying the same concept to other aspects of my dating life, I managed to internalize all the important lessons, from the basics of vibe and visual presentation, all the way to sexual escalation and Dance game. This made me literally a truly attractive Man who just magnetized people towards me.

How did I manage to do this? By being a Big-Picture person. I realized that I (like most people) was being very narrow-minded in my approach towards mastering my dating life. I placed so much emphasis on learning how to meet Women that I failed to see that the most important factor for being good with Women is Leading. To be a good leader of Women, a Man simply needs 2 things :

1) A Game Plan

2) Leadership Ability (confidence, conveyance)

But, my focus for this post is not on leading. That is something that we train our clients to master on our Private Instruction programs. The purpose of this series of posts is for me to give you guys the REAL big-picture when it comes to developing a successful dating life for yourself. I believe that like with all things in life, it is important to CLEARLY understand the reality of a situation before you start to develop a strategy to master that particular aspect of your life. This is me giving you a CLEAR UNDERSTANDING of the reality of the dynamics between Men and Women.

There are 3 key aspects that must work in perfect synergy in order for a Man to have a truly successful dating life. In this post, I am going to talk about the very first one.

Aspect #1 : Reach

Your Reach in a dating context is defined by your ability to meet Women. It is not just a simple matter of having good Game and technically good social skills. Reach is much more than that. Reach can be broken down into 3 parts :

1) Your Lifestyle Dimensions

I believe that your Lifestyle Dimensions would be the most important thing to consider when it comes to meeting Women. The truth is, all the skills in the world would be useless if your lifestyle does not allow you avenues to apply your Game. So take a look at your lifestyle dimensions today and consider how effective they are in allowing you to meet Women. If all you do is stay at home from Monday to Sunday, unless you do online game, or your neighbour’s a pimp, it’s pretty impossible to meet Women with such a lifestyle. Even if you are proficient at meeting Women online, chances are that your lack of worldly experiences would make it hard to attract and keep a Woman’s attention.

One of the most common problems with Asian men is that their lifestyles are not Female-Centric. What this means is that while they may actually have a lifestyle, it really isn't one that appeals to Women and therefore, results in a very small chance of these Men being able to meet Women. If you work from Mondays to Fridays, and all you do on the weekends is play LAN games and kick it over a few beers with your homies at the sports bar, chances are slim that you are actually going to meet new, attractive Women. Female-Centric activities are activities that appeal to Women. Examples of such activities would be clubbing, desserts, hitting cafes/pubs, dance/language classes and erm... Cosplay events?!

A really effective way to tweak your lifestyle dimensions to allow for more Women to enter you life is to allow at least 1 evening a week for a Female-Centric activity. If you know some friends who have many female friends (like your Wingwomen), have them invite those female friends out for a night of Karaoke or even kite-flying! Yes, you can go grab a medi-pedi if that’s your thang, but I would suggest clubbing or just finding a regular spot with lots of female traffic and become a regular there. Of course, if you would like to know how to become an ACE at meeting Women and dating them, you can always talk to me about Private Instruction

2) Your Game

Your Game refers to your technical ability to meet Women. Tweaking your lifestyle to become more Female-Centric is a piece of cake, but being able to become a Man who is able to meet and attract Women who want to stick around in your life can be quite a challenge. This is why dating coaches like myself exist. In the Game stages of your Reach, the focus is on you being :

- Being attractive enough to Women so that they would want to meet you

- Being confident and skilled enough to meet a Woman while engaging in your Lifestyle Activities.

Most people think that being an ACE at approaching and picking-up Women is the key to having a successful dating life. They CANNOT be further from the Truth. Real Ladies’ Men will tell you that it’s not how many Women you know, it’s how many are proud and happy to have known you.

To be completely honest, learning to approach Women is really simple. If you can eat a sandwich, you can approach a Woman effectively. I am serious. It’s been proven over and over again to my ever-growing community of Alumni and enthusiasts. Think about it for a second. Approaching is just saying “Hey!”. If you have problems with that, learning how to approach is NOT GOING TO SOLVE IT. It’s going to get you approaching, but it will not eradicate the problem from your life. You will need to hone the RIGHT BELIEFS in order to do so.

The focus should be on your CONVERSION, which I will write about in Part II

3) Your Reputation

Like it or not, people are going to have an impression of you. Hell, if you can have an impression of someone, why can’t they have one of you?

The beautiful thing about being a ladies’ man or the 24/7 Attractive Man is that you start to gain a reputation for being one.

We all convey certain attributes to people we meet everyday, even if they so much as glanced at us for a second. If you present yourself in a certain way in a CONSISTENT manner, you are going to develop a reputation. Some people are consistently forgettable. Some people are consistently avoided. Some people are consistently wanted by everyone in their life. Having a bad reputation ain’t a bad thing… it’s so much easier to impress people when they assume you’re a scoundrel. How else do you think a guy like me can write a blog like this and STILL have Women (more) in my life? You can bet it isn’t because of my remarkable Playstation skills...

People are naturally attracted to people with a reputation. When you hear a lot about someone before you meet them, you would anticipate the first time you actually meet up. You will want to see for yourself if the opinion you formed in your head about this person is spot on or not. This is especially so if it is an attractive member of the opposite sex. It’s just like if you met Mark Zuckerburg of Facebook on the street. If you didn’t know who he was, you’d probably treat him like you treat any other stranger. But if you knew who he was before meeting him and finally met him, you’d be pretty awestruck. In fact, if you knew he was going to show up somewhere around your area, you are going to go out of your way to "run into him".

Having a reputation inspires people to REACH OUT to you. Such is the power of a Reputation.

Alright folks, I am going to reveal the next 2 aspects of a Successful Dating Life in my next post so stay tuned for that! I would also expect to have updates on my upcoming story with AFP by the next update so until then, have a powerful week ahead!

Live and Love,

Xavier

xavier@maverick-movement.com

http://alife2love.com/

Skype : xavierrrr

How to Develop a Successful Dating Life (Part I) is a post from: Maverick Movement

We hope you enjoyed that run of video blog posts we did in Macau. Unfortunately, from there on, it was all business, so we didn't have time to do more videos. We'd have loved to, simply because Hong Kong is so awesome. We're not talking about the ladies here, mind you (although they did play a big part ). The place itself is A-mazing. The people there are friendly, the shopping is great, and the view is breathtaking.

The good thing is, we have a backlog of videos that we'll be releasing in time to come. Some of them will be made private, in order to protect certain individuals. But most of them will be available to the public, as thanks for your support.

Our updates may be hitting you on a weekly basis, but we feel that it is simply not enough. Personally, I've come to learn quite a number of lessons in the past few months, and I want to share them with you guys; however, time is a factor. We have been working behind the scenes since we got back from our trip, and if you haven't noticed, we're going corporate in terms of training. Feel free to contact us if you feel like your company needs help. Just click on the 'Corporate Training' link above.

Having said that, today's post is Awareness-based. I figured this is a lesson any hustler-wannabe MUST know. And unfortunately for most of us, we lack a key figure in our lives who really gives us the lowdown on living an Awesome life.

This is something I had to learn myself as well. Sometimes I wish that I had a mentor earlier on in life who did not hold back on all the hardcore lessons, because it will only benefit eventually. One of them is Believing in Yourself. It may sound really simple and over-stated, but the truth is, people often hear this but never listen. Believing in Yourself is not about having a healthy amount of self-esteem. They are related, yes, but not the same.

It's about understanding that no matter where you are in your life, what you want for yourself is entirely valid, and that no one can take that away from you.

It's about knowing that, despite all your flaws and imperfections, you are who you are, and there is nothing wrong with that.

It's about believing that your opinions count for something, and that people should respect them, regardless of whether they agree with it or not.

I remember a few years back, I was having a discussion about the kind of girl I wanted in my life with someone in my extended family. Unfortunately, she and I couldn't agree that I “deserve” the type of girl I wanted. Fortunately for me, I was unfazed by what my relative thought of me. But at that moment, I thought about how someone with a weaker self-belief would react, and I could imagine it would have made that person doubt himself.

Truth is, you're always gonna have doubters. I've had many in my life, and they've made me feel bad. I know how it feels to be shaken. But I've come to learn that my beliefs are valid, and that's all that matters. Whether you believe in yourself is what counts. If you don't, you're gonna be shaky everytime someone challenges you. How can you expect to live your life the way you want if you are shaken so easily?

Look, I'm not saying it's not normal to doubt yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. People encounter self-doubt because they have a self-image of where they stand, and when they look to the external environment for evidence to validate that image, the image and evidence don't agree with each other.

In my opinion, self-doubt is good, because it gives you the opportunity to take a step back, self-reflect, and see the cause of it. Unfortunately, you are never gonna be able to run away from self-doubt completely. The people at the top suffer from it as well, so don't expect to eliminate it forever. What you need to know is that it is not an actual indication of your own abilities.

Here at Success Initiative, we believe that whatever you believe, you are right. Therefore, if you believe that you are not worth your value, you are right. Conversely, the same applies.

Unfortunately, there is no shortcut to success. Therefore, you will need to work for it. If you think your abilities are not up to scratch, then you'll need to up the ante and hustle. Results don't lie. They are the most tangible evidence you'll get. But in my experience, self-doubt has more to do with self-image than ability.

If that is the case, then go for the big E, that is, Experience. Lessons are best learnt through revelations, and you can only get that through experience. Forget about abilities, forget about self-beliefs, forget about achieving results. Go for the experience, and the realisation will naturally happen. It may take a while, but when it happens, the realisation will be heart-felt. And anything that's heart-felt will never be forgotten.

At the end of the day, I sincerely feel that Believing in Yourself is the first step towards success. If you don't have that basic self-belief, your actions will forever work to your disadvantage. You may have the perfect gameplan, the perfect strategy, or the perfect solution, but without that confidence in your own self, you'll subconsciously sabotage your own efforts. People always blame circumstance for their failures, but what they fail to recognise is that the root cause lies in their own belief system, rather than external factors.

Believing in Yourself. is a post from: Maverick Movement